Eva should deal with the issue of who should be in her wedding and who shouldn't be. Also, in case of our dad and Drahuska, Eva should be very clear about it with our mom as far who is coming and how is not. It's Eva's day so she should reserve the right to have people she wants at the wedding and that should be respected. She will have to consider some things. If she really wants to have our mom there, it might mean that Drahuska shouldn't be there. Because if Drahuska will be there, mom will not show up. It seems as if there is no "win, win" situation.

Consider this irony. Dad's new wife's name is Drahuska. Imagine: You have a spouse, whose been cheating on you! Then he marries the person he's been committing this horrendous act with. She is guilty of it as much as he is. And then you call her by her first name? Drahuska? What's synonym for that name. What is it that she has done with our dad?

Well, I respect his decision to have her for his wife, because he is my father. But I clearly disagree with his actions and would never call her mom, or have my children call her their grandma. Yet, I'll respect her as my dad's wife, because I respect the choice he made, though I disagree with it.

Back to the issue with mom coming to the US. I know she'll want to come and see our baby, and that's great. Just for your reference and your reference only, we don't need her to stay with us for too long. I travel a lot and Annette and our mom don't speak the same language, mom wants to run things her way and conflict is on a horizon. So, let's keep that it mind as well.

And is Rena really so eager to leave her husband and spend the summer apart from him?

Blessings,

Kamil